The decision to amputate can stem from a number of different reasons. Some people, who have suffered for a long time and undertaken a variety of treatments for their condition, find it difficult to accept that nothing more can be done. However, some people accept the decision to amputate, realizing that this is the only way to solve the problem.

When amputation is the result of cancer or an accident, the decision to amputate could be almost immediate and the person may have no time to think about or even know what is happening to them.

As with any form of severe shock, the loss of a limb can put significant pressure on you. It is normal to feel stressed under such circumstances and to go through a grieving period. Grieving can often be associated with a number of stages including denial, anger, depression* and finally acceptance and hope. All these stages are normal reactions to be expected following such a major operation and subsequent disability.

There are people working at the hospital that are trained to help you deal with these psychological factors and provide support. If you are not automatically offered an appointment with such a specialist, please ask and it will be arranged. Remember, you are not alone. You may find it helpful to read about and listen to other amputees who understand what you are experiencing.

* There is an important distinction between feeling depressed, as we commonly understand it, and being clinically depressed. A clinically depressed person should seek professional help as soon as possible and see a psychologist or a psychiatrist.